HOW IS YOUR "SELF-ESTEEM?"
Quick Test: Let's say you just did a speech in front of 100 people. 98 people tell you that you are great and yet 2 people tell you that you stink... Do you listen to the majority or the minority?
Most people with low self-esteem would listen to the 2 people that didn't like them. Why? Well one reason is because of a thing called "Approval Addiction."
When you value the opinions of the few vs the masses who love you something is wrong with that. Truth is most of us want a 100% approval rating and that is impossible. We spend our entire lives searching for those "thumbs ups."
But here is the deal. Even if you were perfect (which is impossible) a few people (haters) would STILL find something wrong with you. You are searching for something that does not exist (a 100% approval rating).
All you need is the approval of the ONE ABOVE who made you and created you for great things. God alone is your manufacturer. Takes all the pressure off. Each day He's in heaven applauding you and cheering you on. Even the bible says, "You are more than a conquerer through Christ Jesus!"
So work your business! Do your thing! Go for your goals! Live your dreams! Go big and do your best and don't worry about the opinions of others.
Live free!
-Coach CJ
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Excellent blog Coach and so very true, now that you put it like that, what was I thinking? I need to look UP more often and not around. I'm working on that!
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