How to go from Surviving to Thriving in Business-Coach CJ

How to go from Surviving to Thriving in Business

I am a master of surviving. I can survive any type of poverty, or bill collectors, or heartbreak or struggle, or financial difficulty.
I would hold on to these struggles like a badge of honor. In my family “The Struggle” was something to be proud of. You were taught to survive by stretching out payments, or stretching out a food budget of $10 dollars to feed a family of 5 for 2 days. You were taught to do whatever you had to do to survive. I know about pawn shop survival, payday loan struggles, welfare struggles, bargain and deal struggles, struggling to pay bills and debts, struggling to get your rent paid each month or struggling to dodge the police because you didn’t have insurance this month for your car. Yes I was a master of “The Struggle” until I had a revelation one day. On that day, I was no longer proud of the struggle. I didn’t want to be proud to be a survivalist, I wanted to master thriving!

I wanted to know what it was like to not have to struggle and be proud of it but to finally “breakthrough” and thrive where you had struggles, but on a different level. Struggle to keep your wealth, or struggle with haters because you appeared to have too much. I wanted the struggle of which vacation spot we were going to go to or struggle with the kids who now fight over which movie theatre to go to. I wanted next level struggles of wealth and prosperity and more than enough.

So how to do you finally breakthrough from survival to the level of “thriving?” How do you finally get out of the vicious cycle of barely making it to the level you are supposed to be on? I have boiled it down to three simple steps:

1. Mindset Transformation 

No matter how much you desire something you cannot change your physical world (money, success, debt free better health etc) until you change your mental world. I have seen this happen hundreds of times. A person truly desires success and prosperity but their mindset is still stuck on the safety mode. You can want to shoot a gun for example but if your gun is stuck on safety it will never fire. If you desire to go 150 miles per hour in a Ferrari but your key is still in your pocket you will never even get started. My suggestion is to daily feed your mind new information and personal development. Listen to audios, mp3s, videos and other success training products and programs and feed your mind until it changes. Once this happens, breakthroughs in the physical world will happen.

Last example. Right now you have probably heard dozens of motivational teachers talk about mindset, but, did you take the action? Are you going to stop reading this blogpost right now and start listening to personal development mp3s right now? Or will you make more excuses and find reasons that you can’t do it. This is your ticket to the lifestyle you desire. If you can’t do this first step, success will not manifest itself to you. So let’s do this. Get to our site and find something that you can read or listen to now. 

2. Mass Marketing for a big booming breakthrough!

Ever watch the tv shows and see the same commercials over and over again. I have seen insurance companies advertise 4 and 5 times or more during just one episode. That’s what you must do in your business to see major breakthroughs in your finances. You cannot just market your product on Facebook 2 or 3 times a month and expect results. This is a busy world and only the product or services that stay in the mind of the consumer will win out. So mass market everywhere on 10 or 12 social sites at once using Hootstuite.com It’s a powerful tool that will get your brand out to several sites at once with a click. 

3. You need a mentor

Who is your mentor right now? No I don’t mean some guy on your team or your upline. I mean a real “paid” coach that will hold you accountable. A mentor or coach where you can’t get out of the deal because you have invested in him or her. You see if you mentor is free, you can run anytime you want. If you have invested a little cash then you will be less likely to back out of the deal and go back to the safety-comfort zone of your past. You may not like your mentor or coach very much at first because they will hold your feet to the fire and keep you from telling lies to yourself but it will be one of the greatest transformations steps you will ever take to see your dreams come true. 

I have coached hundreds over my 18 years as a success coach. Now it’s your turn to thrive. Get a free 30 minute session on us. Limited time only. 

-CoachCJ 

The #1 Reason Your Spouse is not supporting your business dreams

The #1 Reason Your Spouse is not supporting your business dreams?

The Quick answer?
They don’t see results!

So they don’t understand your fancy mlm, network marketing, online biz, seo, blogging, coaching, lead generation blahh blahh business. Why should they? It’s like a foreign language to them. Listen. From my years of experience in both marriage and business, my wife doesn’t give a flying goose egg what I do online. All she cares about is, 

“Are these bills going to get paid.”
“Are the kids going to college?”

“Are we going to finally take that vacation?”
“Can you stop these debt collectors from calling the house?”

You see it’s simple. When your business starts popping with results, the critics, the haters, the skeptics, and the cynics will all begin to smile. Some will even hit you up for a loan.
But that’s not the real question. The real question is, “Why am I not seeing real results in my business?” Now that’s a loaded question.

So I’ll answer that question quickly in these bullet points below:

>Your mindset is not where it should be
>Your system is flawed. You need a proven system
>You don’t have a coach or mentor to show you the shortcut for success. 

The final bullet point is the SO important. Look. Someone has done it already. Someone is already getting results. It would be foolish not to follow in their proven footsteps. Make sense?

Let me show you how to increase your income!
Let me show you how to increase your leads and
Let me show you how to live the lifestyle you deserve

So you can:
>Put a smile on your spouses face and
>Finally, silence your critics.

CoachCJ
PS> Get my free 30 minute coaching strategy session so I can tell you how to fix your business finances once and for all. Your loved ones just want results! Period
Your spouse will approve. Trust me

How to Master Your Mindset in 3 Easy Steps

Between your 2 ears holds everything you want in this world. Success, prosperity, a great relationship, or great health. It’s called your mindset. It’s simple. Master your mindset and everything you want to manifest is yours. Time to get rid of the “stinking thinking” and live the life you’ve always dreamed.

How do you master your mindset? I use these 3 simple steps: 

1. Train your brain daily

I don’t skip a day. I train my brain every single day through personal development programs, reading the bible and listening to audio programs and mp3s. I watch countless motivational videos on Youtube on success, prosperity, or personal development every day. I never miss a day. Even holidays, sundays, even right now as I write this blog on Thanksgiving. When I miss days, my brain and thinking will try to return back to the mush and negativity. Your brain is like working out with your muscles. You skip days or weeks and your body begins to return back to mush. I get my iron hot daily, and then I strike (take action) when the iron is hot. 

2. Write down all limiting beliefs

What you believe can affect your performance. Over the years I have transformed hundreds of “limiting beliefs” (beliefs that held me back and kept me from achieving what I wanted. These limiting beliefs can be everything you believe to be true about money, relationships, business or health. Example: If you BELIEVE that “money doesn’t grow on trees” then it won’t for you. I DO happen to believe that money can just manifest itself if you change your mindset and take small income producing actions. Some believe that “it takes money to make money.” Wrong! It takes skill-set and mindset. I have made money with zero money many many times pulling money out of thin air. 

So what do I do to change these limiting beliefs? I take out a piece of paper and write down the limiting belief on the left side of the paper, and then I write a new and more powerful belief on the right side of the paper. (Thanks Tony Robbins). When I first started, I had hundreds of these limiting beliefs that were stopping me from achieving my best self. So, what limiting beliefs do YOU have that are holding you back. Whatever you believe, it will be true to “you.”

And yes, it is true, “your outer world (money, success, and things) is a reflection of your inner world” (your mind and heart). Thanks T. Harv Ecker (author of the Millionaire Mind)

2. Surround yourself with next level achievers

One of the most challenging things you will ever do is remove old negative cynical friends and relative and begin to surround yourself with 4 or 5 people that are going somewhere and achieving the things you want in life.

But if you do this, your whole world will change. They will talk next level, perform at the next level and think at the next level. You will become who you hang around with. It’s that simple. 

So where do you start?
You can start by getting my mindset book Mindset 33, on my site at: www.HomeBusinessBosses.com My book has helped many of my students and clients gain clarity, gain confidence and increase their productivity and income.

Go get em,
Coach CJ