How to go from Surviving to Thriving in Business
I am a master of surviving. I can survive any type of poverty, or bill collectors, or heartbreak or struggle, or financial difficulty.
I would hold on to these struggles like a badge of honor. In my family “The Struggle” was something to be proud of. You were taught to survive by stretching out payments, or stretching out a food budget of $10 dollars to feed a family of 5 for 2 days. You were taught to do whatever you had to do to survive. I know about pawn shop survival, payday loan struggles, welfare struggles, bargain and deal struggles, struggling to pay bills and debts, struggling to get your rent paid each month or struggling to dodge the police because you didn’t have insurance this month for your car. Yes I was a master of “The Struggle” until I had a revelation one day. On that day, I was no longer proud of the struggle. I didn’t want to be proud to be a survivalist, I wanted to master thriving!
I wanted to know what it was like to not have to struggle and be proud of it but to finally “breakthrough” and thrive where you had struggles, but on a different level. Struggle to keep your wealth, or struggle with haters because you appeared to have too much. I wanted the struggle of which vacation spot we were going to go to or struggle with the kids who now fight over which movie theatre to go to. I wanted next level struggles of wealth and prosperity and more than enough.
So how to do you finally breakthrough from survival to the level of “thriving?” How do you finally get out of the vicious cycle of barely making it to the level you are supposed to be on? I have boiled it down to three simple steps:
1. Mindset Transformation
I would hold on to these struggles like a badge of honor. In my family “The Struggle” was something to be proud of. You were taught to survive by stretching out payments, or stretching out a food budget of $10 dollars to feed a family of 5 for 2 days. You were taught to do whatever you had to do to survive. I know about pawn shop survival, payday loan struggles, welfare struggles, bargain and deal struggles, struggling to pay bills and debts, struggling to get your rent paid each month or struggling to dodge the police because you didn’t have insurance this month for your car. Yes I was a master of “The Struggle” until I had a revelation one day. On that day, I was no longer proud of the struggle. I didn’t want to be proud to be a survivalist, I wanted to master thriving!
I wanted to know what it was like to not have to struggle and be proud of it but to finally “breakthrough” and thrive where you had struggles, but on a different level. Struggle to keep your wealth, or struggle with haters because you appeared to have too much. I wanted the struggle of which vacation spot we were going to go to or struggle with the kids who now fight over which movie theatre to go to. I wanted next level struggles of wealth and prosperity and more than enough.
So how to do you finally breakthrough from survival to the level of “thriving?” How do you finally get out of the vicious cycle of barely making it to the level you are supposed to be on? I have boiled it down to three simple steps:
1. Mindset Transformation
No matter how much you desire something you cannot change your physical world (money, success, debt free better health etc) until you change your mental world. I have seen this happen hundreds of times. A person truly desires success and prosperity but their mindset is still stuck on the safety mode. You can want to shoot a gun for example but if your gun is stuck on safety it will never fire. If you desire to go 150 miles per hour in a Ferrari but your key is still in your pocket you will never even get started. My suggestion is to daily feed your mind new information and personal development. Listen to audios, mp3s, videos and other success training products and programs and feed your mind until it changes. Once this happens, breakthroughs in the physical world will happen.
Last example. Right now you have probably heard dozens of motivational teachers talk about mindset, but, did you take the action? Are you going to stop reading this blogpost right now and start listening to personal development mp3s right now? Or will you make more excuses and find reasons that you can’t do it. This is your ticket to the lifestyle you desire. If you can’t do this first step, success will not manifest itself to you. So let’s do this. Get to our site and find something that you can read or listen to now.
Last example. Right now you have probably heard dozens of motivational teachers talk about mindset, but, did you take the action? Are you going to stop reading this blogpost right now and start listening to personal development mp3s right now? Or will you make more excuses and find reasons that you can’t do it. This is your ticket to the lifestyle you desire. If you can’t do this first step, success will not manifest itself to you. So let’s do this. Get to our site and find something that you can read or listen to now.
2. Mass Marketing for a big booming breakthrough!
Ever watch the tv shows and see the same commercials over and over again. I have seen insurance companies advertise 4 and 5 times or more during just one episode. That’s what you must do in your business to see major breakthroughs in your finances. You cannot just market your product on Facebook 2 or 3 times a month and expect results. This is a busy world and only the product or services that stay in the mind of the consumer will win out. So mass market everywhere on 10 or 12 social sites at once using Hootstuite.com It’s a powerful tool that will get your brand out to several sites at once with a click.
3. You need a mentor
Who is your mentor right now? No I don’t mean some guy on your team or your upline. I mean a real “paid” coach that will hold you accountable. A mentor or coach where you can’t get out of the deal because you have invested in him or her. You see if you mentor is free, you can run anytime you want. If you have invested a little cash then you will be less likely to back out of the deal and go back to the safety-comfort zone of your past. You may not like your mentor or coach very much at first because they will hold your feet to the fire and keep you from telling lies to yourself but it will be one of the greatest transformations steps you will ever take to see your dreams come true.
I have coached hundreds over my 18 years as a success coach. Now it’s your turn to thrive. Get a free 30 minute session on us. Limited time only.
-CoachCJ
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